The teenage years are often HELL

As hormones course through your teens…

Emotions overwhelm them.

And for a lot of teens, these emotions are negative.

Which often blocks them from feeling confident in social groups… excelling in academics… or performing their best at sporting events.

That’s why today i’m going to show you how to remove that block…

So your teen thinks positively about themselves…

Feels confident to with friends or in the classroom

And achieve the success and happiness they’re truly capable of.

Because here’s reality…

Your teen is actually FILLED with so much potential…

But right now, it’s lying hidden from the world

Does any of this sound familiar about your teen:

1. They’re quiet in their friend groups or bigger groups
2. They’re playing too many video games instead of studying.
3. They’re making poor decisions and following their friend groups instead of thinking for themselves
4. They’re not performing as well as they should in sports
5. They’re hiding away in their rooms instead of spending time with you
6. They’re stuck with “negative self-talk” and feeling like a victim
7. They seem totally unmotivated and not being self starters
8. They’re getting into conflict with you

If you’ve noticed any of these behaviours in your teen…

It can be really frustrating…

Why is it just your teen who may be falling behind the others?

After all, you know if your teen just believed in themselves…

They’d be a more confident, driven and happier

But what if they NEVER get rid of the fear that’s holding them back?

Look, I understand – it’s enough to worry you sick.

That’s why In the next 3 minutes…

I’m going to share that even if you feel overwhelmed trying to help your child and don’t know where to start…

Whether you feel lost…

And feel constantly worried your teen won’t grow up to his full potential

Feel more confidence in themselves…

Get better grades at school…

And take control over their emotions, so they remain resilient even the face of setbacks

… in just 8 weeks.

Already I’ve helped thousands of teens just like yours…

• Get straight As in school (surprising everyone: especially the teen!)
• Become the talkative one in their friend group
• Attract better friends who influence them positively
• Feel confident to raise their hand in class and participate in school
• Beat higher ranked players in competitive sports (Seriously… I’ll share why skill is often NOT the determining factor for success in just a moment)
• And become the motivated, self starter that finishes homework and does chores without even being asked to!

Just like Brody. H, age 14, who says

“At first I did not understand why my mom hired Dr. RJ. It wasn’t until I had my first coaching session that I realized that having a life coach is so important. Dr. RJ noticed that fear was limiting my growth. I did not participate in any extracurricular activities. I did not try when it came to homework and tests. I didn’t even try to make any new friends. After he worked with me to overcome my fear, things started to improve in my life. Now, I play hockey, I have a fun friend group, and I make all As!”

Libby. M, age 18, who writes:

“The tips and techniques that Dr.RJ taught me have helped me tremendously! Before high school, I believed that people did not like me so I did not talk much. Dr. RJ helped me challenge my fear. Now, I can be myself knowing that I have the power.”

These are just two of dozens of emails and text messages I get from parents and their teens each month…

Who RAVE about how their lives were transformed with coaching…

After the fear and self-doubt holding them back was eliminated

And how they were able to defeat procrastination… become motivated at school… and make better friends.

It doesn’t even matter if your teen is painfully shy right now…

Is at the bottom of the class…

Has a bad friend group that’s no good for them…

And even if they’re not listening to you right now

My proven, psychology-based program WILL remove your teen’s blocks

So please, pay close attention here

Because I’m going to share how your teen can unlock their potential inside this presentation

You see, contrary to what most people believe…

(Although those things certainly are important)

What usually separates those who excel…

From those who get lost in mediocrity…

Is what goes on inside their heads.

Therefore, success is largely a mental game

It’s all thanks to social media.

Which stalks your teen every second, of every day

Not only does it PUMP their brains with dopamine… getting them HOOKED like an addict to their screen… and messes with their brain chemistry

It also shatters their sense of self worth.

Because they’re constantly being bombarded with FAKE, photoshopped images of other people’s “better” lives…

That makes them feel like they’re “not enough”.

Now don’t worry…

I don’t suggest banning your teen from social media…

Not only is that unrealistic and will backfire…

It’s unnecessary because…

There’s a powerful way to radically boost your teen’s self-esteem no matter how shy or unmotivated they are…

… in just 3 easy steps

This is something that works even if they’re self-sabotaging right now…

By missing classes…

Doing naughty things with their friends like smoking…

Burying themselves in their rooms playing video games all day..

Refusing to do homework

Or even getting into bickering matches with you over chores and homework.

You see, after getting wild success with thousands of teens from all across North America…

I am confident that your teen WILL transform too.

So please, keep reading now…

I’m going to share inside this presentation my research-backed, proven method of unlocking your child’s greatest potential – so they live a life free of self doubt and anxiety.

This new method will silence the negative self talk in your child’s head… and open his eyes to his own value and unlimited potential.

… without you being a nag or getting confrontational with your kid

Once the fear holding back your teen is removed…

They will become the self starter and confident teen they’re destined to be.

This is also something that will help you connect more deeply to your child and help you form a rock solid bond…

Where your child spends more time with you, makes better decisions and lives up to their full potential

Don’t be surprised when your friends ask you what changed in your teen or what your “secret” is

As you become the “go-to” parent for advice on teens.

Sound good? Great… put your phone down and grab a pen. Because we’ve got A LOT to cover

I’m married to my lovely wife Frances

And we have two boys together, Jeremiah and Isaiah.

But I’m not only a family man…

I’m also an IPEC certified coach, through the University of Texas…

And regarded by thousands of parent’s across america as the world’s leading teen coach

Who’s radically transformed the lives of countless teens of every age and background.

But before all that…

I was an orthodontist putting smiles on teen’s faces

Ever since I was in school, I wanted to spread joy and happiness through smiles

You see, I noticed that my friends struggled with confidence issues…

And to tell you the truth… I was never the most confident teen either.

But since I was never the “funny guy” in class

I figured I’d become an orthodontist!

After all, smiles always seemed like the “logos” of happiness to me.

Yet…

Even as a “smile doctor”…

I felt like I could be doing more to help teens.

Well, that’s when an idea sparked in my mind…

I decide to volunteer as a mentor to teens at my church

Every weekend, I’d work closely with teens helping them overcome struggles in their lives.

Over x months/years, I saw first-hand the type of issues teen’s go through today.

Things they’d NEVER feel comfortable telling their parents…

And I’m proud to say I was making a real impact in their lives.

To be honest, I never thought for a moment that I’d helped teens professionally…

Until…

I had ONE experience that changed the entire trajectory of my life

You see, I’d recently put braces on a teen.

Then out-of-the-blue her mother phones me one morning

Asking that I take her daughter’s braces off.

For a moment I was speechless.

Didn’t she WANT her daughter to have a beautiful smile?

Since it was my duty to spread smiles – I gently prodded her a little more

At first, she was reluctant to tell me… It’s sometimes difficult for parents to talk about the troubles with their teens.

But as soon as I created a “safe space” for her…

It’s like the floodgates burst wide open!

She shared with me that her daughter had an eating disorder, and the braces were making her self conscious…

Which was further fueling self-hate, intense shyness and an unwillingness to eat.

I was shocked: I thought this whole time I was HELPING kids.

Sure braces are a little embarrassing…

But I never thought for one second that my work would harm this innocent girl.

Even though logically I knew it wasn’t my fault… emotionally I felt compelled to help.

Since her mother knew I volunteered at the church… she was grateful when I offered to coach to her daughter.

Now here’s the really strange part:

After coaching this teen for a few weeks something really unexpected occured to me…

Which forever made me rethink teen issues…

You see, there was nothing really “wrong” with her child.

It’s NOT like she was a problem child.

In fact, she was actually pretty smart and had a wonderful, bubbly personality

(Once she “warmed up” to you)

It was just that no matter what happened around her…

She was stuck in negative thought patterns – assuming people were judging her, or that she wasn’t good enough.

No matter how much her parents and teachers reassured her of her positive qualities.

She was uncontrollably plagued by constant anxiety and fear… that robbed her of her confidence in herself.

It was like her brain just wanted to be negative.

And if you’re reading this and it sounds familiar…

… if your teen is deadly shy around friends or strangers but has a wonderful personality when it’s just the family

… if your teen is unmotivated even though you know they are filled with smarts and potential…

You are not alone

You see, as I later realized their thoughts control their world view and block them off from being who they are supposed to be (I’ll share more on this and what to do about it in just a minute)

And these negative thoughts…

Are what causes teens to self-sabotage…

By becoming the shy kid around other teens…

By “choking” during sports matches

And by not doing homework after school or participating in class.

But as I discovered from coaching her daughter when we focused on her mindsets…

There was a shift in her thinking…

And she started to improve…

Her mom reported that she was eating food again and didn’t seem to be constantly beating herself up

But she wasn’t completely free from her insecurities and self-doubt.. Sometimes she’d be triggered by something negative in her life…

Instead of responding with resilience..

She’d go into a “negative thought spiral” and stop eating again.

This cycle went on for months.

Eventually I was out of ideas… I felt like I FAILED her…

I just could not achieve permanent changes in her.

Clueless about how to make the changes “stick”- instead I searched for a teen specialist who could create lasting change…

But there simply was NONE…

We tried therapists…

Not only did they cost an arm and a leg…

They were only really good for coping issues…

Not the transformation on a subconscious level her daughter desperately needed.

Even the life coaches across America were no good. There wasn’t a single one who focused on teens.

And as you know the teen years are especially difficult.

That’s when I decided to take it upon myself to figure it out…

I enrolled at the university of texas into their prestigious coaching program

While studying practical cutting edge, psychology-based tactics to create deep, lasting change…

My mind was blown wide open

I knew for SURE I was on the right track when one month into my certification…

The teen’s mom phoned me up excitedly and told me her daughter was feeling more confident and assure of herself and was eating food again

My understanding of teen’s problems and how to fix them evolved…

And I finally understood…

Your teen lives in two realities…

There is the “external world”

And there is the “internal world”.

Now don’t worry, this isn’t “woo woo” nonsense…

Stick with me for a minute and I’ll not only PROVE these two worlds exist….

I’ll also show you why the disconnect between them, is what causes ALL your teens problems

You see, the outer world is your teens true potential…

You already know how great your teen is…

… How much they have to offer new friends…

… How much better than I can do in school…

… or excel in sports

After all, that’s what frustrates you so much, right?

It’s like everyone gets how great your teen is – except your teen!

Well, that’s why your teen’s “internal world” is SO important, too.

You see, the “internal world” is the world of thoughts and beliefs.

As you know, we privately think thoughts to ourselves all the time.

In fact, we do this all day, every day.

Therefore, the “internal world” is about how your teen talks to themselves…

Are they encouraging and supportive?

Or do they put themselves down?

This positive or negative bias matters… because it controls your teens emotions… and impacts how they behave in the world

Now, the “internal world” also concerns the beliefs your teen holds…

These beliefs are their automatic assumptions about who they are and what they’re capable of

❌ Does your teen believe they’re not “cool enough” to make new friends?

❌ Does your teen believe they’re not “smart enough” to do well in school?

❌ Does your teen believe they’re just not as talented as the other kids?

Here’s the reality…

If you don’t believe in yourself and you’re constantly putting yourself down…

You stand no chance of getting the things you want…

After all, why even bother trying, right?

That’s why every negative thought your teen thinks… is like a poisonous seed taking root in their subconscious mind…

That silently destroys their confidence from the inside out.

Now, when your teen’s external world and internal world clash…

Usually it’s the internal world that wins…

In other words…. their “external world” potential is simply not enough.

It DEMANDS self-belief to turn their potential into reality

Think of it like a car…

The engine is your teen’s potential

And gas is your teen’s beliefs.

Now it doesn’t matter whether you have a V12 engine that can do 0 to 60mph in 3.2 seconds….

(Which is so fast it’s almost like trying to watch a speeding bullet whiz past!)

… Without gas your engine has nothing to burn

Which means it can’t move forward – despite of all it’s ENORMOUS, dormant potential

That’s why thoughts and beliefs are like the FUEL for reaching your true potential

So now we know why your teen is having all these problems…

There’s a disconnect between their “external world” and “internal world…

Because they have all this potential “on paper”

But lack the thoughts and beliefs to skyrocket them towards success

You might be wondering, “how did my teen even develop these thoughts?”

Especially since you’re probably a terrific parent who did everything right…

(The fact that you’re here reading this letter proves it)

Truth is: these days the cards are stacked against you

As you probably know, kids these days are glued to their devices…

They’re on snapchat… instagram… and ticktok

Social media stalks them around all day like the sun

Now, you’d think these devices would help connect your teens to the world

Actually, the OPPOSITE is true!

It’s creating a BIG GAP in their mind about who they are and who they think they should be

The reason is because they’re constantly seeing what everyone else is getting up to online…

They’re watching how the “cool kids” are going to parties or the beach – and they’re not invited.

And that’s only barely scratching the surface…

They also desperately need to get likes on every post they put out…

(Even if they wouldn’t admit it, trust me, they notice these things)

By getting hooked on external validation like this messes with their brain chemistry

And sends signals to their brain saying who they are RIGHT NOW… it’s just not good enough

PLUS: Social media is FAKE…

It only shows the “highlight reels” of people’s lives.

Which creates totally false expectations about what their lives should be like

Making them feel like they’re MILES AWAY from who they should be

That means…

Teens today are living in a world that’s rigged against them…

In fact, the Canadian Journal of Psychiatry, researchers observed more than 3,000 seventh to 10th graders in the greater Montreal area over a period of four years

More time spent on social media…

The more anxious the teen.

Social media is making your teens feel worse about themselves

… it warps their brain

… creates deep rooted beliefs that they’re “less than” others.

Once that belief takes root…

it becomes an automatic way of thinking

Causing your child to always beat themselves up, and think negatively…

Which causes the disconnect between their “external reality” and their “internal world”…

And explains why they’re shy as a mouse around friends or in class

Or they seem unmotivated and don’t want to do school work

Now i’m not suggesting you take your kids phones away and ban them from social media either…

That would lead to conflict and it’s not necessary

In a minute I’ll reveal what to do instead

And how you can easily SILENCE the “inner critic” in their heads

Now just to summarize…

We know that your teen has an internal and external world

Their external world is filled with potential

But their internal world is filled with self-doubt

THIS disconnect is what’s causing their problem

It’s like a vacuum that SUCKS UP all their true potential

Therefore the solution is to reconnect your teens inner and outer worlds

By switching your teens thinking from “negative” to “positive”

And believe me… I know how worrying it is to have a teen who’s stuck in negativity…

Especially when every day that goes by…

With nothing changing…

This negativity is becoming deeper and deeper rooted in their subconscious mind – like a filthy stain that won’t come out

Threatening to haunt your child well into their adulthood and beyond.

That’s why, here on this page…

I’m going to show you my proprietary 3-step system for reconnecting your teens inner and outer worlds.

… to unlock their FULL potential

Step 1: Empathize

First, I’m going to empathise with their thoughts…

You see, most people’s instinct is to go against their teens world – and give reasons why they shouldn’t feel the way they do

But that doesn’t actually work. In fact it usually turns them off

Instead, the trick is to make them feel understood first…

BEFORE you attempt to “correct” their thinking patterns

Get this right and their internal world opens wide up and becomes highly suggestible to positive change.

Step 2: Correct

Once your teen feels understood…

They’re ready for their mindsets to be corrected.

I use psychologically-backed speech patterns to shift their emotional state from negative into excitement…

Once there I unravel the negative thought patterns one at a time…

And feed empowering thoughts and belief to your teen in a way that’s utterly unnoticeable.

After all, no teen likes to be TOLD what to think.

That’s why, I go “under the radar” with belief shifting and even get their enthusiastic buy in!

Step 3: Solidify

This is the most crucial step…

That most other “self-help gurus” completely ignore.

Which is once you’ve shifted beliefs patterns…

You need to solidify them, to make them permanent.

Otherwise they simply “unstick” after some time has passed.

That’s why I create a real action-plan for transformation with your teen

By creating goals that are measurable…

And holding them accountable

I reinforce their new beliefs on such a deep level….

That it becomes completely automatic.

Using this exact system has gotten my students 100% success rate

Teens like…

Libby M

Dr. RJ helped me when life was most stressful. Before my SAT I was suffering from anxiety and depression. I honestly just felt stuck. I looked forward to my coaching sessions with Dr. RJ because he always helped me to see things in a whole new way. We worked through all of my issues (he calls them obstacles) and he gave me tools to use when I start to feel overwhelmed and anxious. By the way, I scored a 1510 on my SAT and I honestly believe that Dr. RJ had a lot to do with that.

And Alex. T.,

After Alex joined his coaching program, I witnessed a transformation over four weeks. My son is much more motivated. I no longer have to fight with him about homework, and practice and video games. We are so grateful for Dr. RJ. After witnessing the transformation with Alex, I believe that every teenager could benefit from a life coach.

This psychology-based system I use to transform teens works no matter their age and background

And is the reason why we have a 100% success rate on the program.

Imagine how much more your child will achieve, once they simply believe in themselves?

When they have unshakable self confidence, that no matter what challenges came their way, they’d rise to the occasion and crush it.

Instead of beating themselves down when things didn’t go their way… immediately got back up, dusted themselves off and jumped back on the horse eager to try again.

That unshakable self-belief is the key to unlocking your child’s potential

This is exactly what happened when I worked with Max

When Max’s mom reached out to me, her son wasn’t doing well in school.

When the pandemic hit in 2020, and schools closed down, things got even worse…

All day every day he was sitting up in his room playing video games.

❌ He stopped hopping on video lectures…

❌ He stopped doing homework

❌ He stopped speaking to his friends.

Max just gave up.

As you can imagine, this created a lot of tension between him and his mom and dad.

But Max was not a problem child. Although he had ADHD, which made studying difficult for him, his parents knew deep down that there was more potential in him

Problem was Max’s confidence in himself had been shattered…

You see, at first Max tried really hard to succeed in school.

Once his ADHD was diagnosed he was given medication. At school he was enrolled in an IEP, so he’d have extra time in tests and additional support.

In fact, he had all the support he needed now- except that he STILL wasn’t doing well.

And that destroyed his confidence in his abilities. Max started to believe that “maybe he’s just not as smart as the other kids”

Well, his parents weren’t ready to give up on him just yet, so his mom reached out to me and we got on a call.

I listen to his mom’s frustrations and worries about her son. She was scared he’d just never live up to his potential, and he’d be defined by his disorder.

But I could instantly tell that the reason Max wasn’t doing well…

Was because he believed he was going to fail.

Over the next 8 weeks, I got to know Max. I discovered there was actually nothing wrong with him…

Just like so many kids I’ve coached who lack confidence or underperform in school.

And after correcting his thinking and belief system…

I helped him solidify his new reality

At first, he became a little bit more confident. But it wasn’t enough…

I needed to solidify his new beliefs…

Slowly but surely his confidence improved…

He began doing homework…

He put himself out there and met new people….

And after 8 weeks, he had become significantly more confident.

But that was just the start about a month later, his mom excitedly reported that Max was now getting straight A’s in school.

He’d totally transformed from the shy and unmotivated teen…

To a teen that was taking charge of his life… and achieving incredible results.

And that’ just one story of many teens whose lives transformed after my coaching

Another teen I helped let’s call her Samantha

Samantha was your typical shy teen.

She would not raise her hand in class.

She’d stick to her one friend because she was afraid she’d not meet another

When we started coaching, she was so nervous she’d keep the camera off.

Just getting on a skype call gave her a panic attack.

But I knew there was something special in her.

Once she was comfortable with you, she was really sweet and had a bubbly personality.

And after working with her beliefs about herself started to change.

I helped her reconnect her inner dialogue with her true potential…

Now her mom reports to me that she’s sticking her hand up in class to ask questions, she has more friends

And even more remarkable

She’s become so popular – she’s running for the president of her class!

Her parents couldn’t be prouder (including ME)

These life-changing results happen on virtually every program I run

This is the ultimate confidence transformation program that radically transforms your teen… in just 8 weeks

And sets your teen down the right path and

• Transform your teen into confident, self starter
• Helps them improve their grades or crush it at sports
• And eliminates their self doubt and negative beliefs holding them back

Most importantly…

Your teen will finally be living up to their full potential

It doesn’t matter if they’re super shy now…

Feeling unmotivated at school…

Or they’re regularly getting into fights with you…

This program is PROVEN to work on all teens of any background.

Here’s what’s inside the Teen Confidence Transformation Program

Thought Switching Masterclass:

This program consists of a core set of 8-weeks video training – that covers confidence, leadership, goal setting, state management and more.

Every week your teen will watch between 7-12 videos… including homework to solidify the training.

And each week slowly builds up on the next as the information is reinforced on a subconscious level.

Accountability Coaching:

Every single week your teen will meet with an accountability coach

The purpose of these meeting is to ensure your teen is progressing

So you don’t have to worry about enforcing the program, it takes all the pressure off of you.

Your sole job is to just be the awesome parent you are and to support your child as they make massive strides along the way

Classroom with Dr. RJ Jackson:

Every Friday, your teen will join my class after school, at 5:30 CST.

I run this class live for 30 minutes^[c], with the other students on the program

I’ll teach your teen the fundamental aspects of confidence:

• How to become a leader that others follow
• Why goal setting is the SINGLE MOST IMPORTANT thing for achieving success – and how to set irresistible goals for yourself.
• How to STOP procrastination dead in its tracks – and develop the monk-like discipline to always complete homework and school projects
• The secrets of time management: how to work smarter than everybody else
• How to make friends and grow relationships (Plus: deal with friend drama)
• What you must do IMMEDIATELY when you face set-backs and disappointments… to keep you “grounded” and ready to get back up again.
• And much, MUCH more!

This where I jump into the nitty-gritty of building confidence…

And answer any questions your teen might have – to ensure the valuable information is absorbed on a deep subconscious level

I’ve designed this Teen Confidence Transformation Program…

So even if your teen is super busy at school and with extra curricular activities…

Or the cost of traditional therapy is too high…

There’s no barrier to your teen joining the program and achieving the transformation in confidence they deserve.

Your teen just needs to follow these 3 steps once a week for 8 short weeks…

And it WILL work for them…

Just like it has for so many teens I’ve coached before

So your teen can finally break free from the negative thinking holding them back…

Imagine it…

Your teen letting go of all the self-doubt and negativity…

Every day, your teen feels more confident in themselves…

As they become more assertive in their friend group – who the others turn to when making plans…

Bickering matches over playing video games and doing homework disappears…

And they radically transform into the confident, self-starter who does their homework and goes after the things they want…

… without getting discouraged by minor set-backs

Best part?

After 8 weeks, your friends will be shocked by how much your teen has changed…

They may even come to you for “parenting advice”

And in just 2 minutes from now, you can enroll your teen in this Teen Confidence Transformation Program…

But first…

There’s something you should know…

There’s only a limited number of spaces available on my program

And that’s not a marketing gimmick or anything like that…

It’s God’s honest truth.

Remember, I personally take each friday classroom over skype…

Where students can actively participate and ask me questions…

So to prevent the classroom from becoming chaotic…

And to ensure the quality of this program remains high…

We are only accepting a limited number of students on the program.

But as word spreads about my 100% success rate transforming teen confidence

It means running out of space is a real possibility

I don’t want your teen to miss out on the chance to finally let go of the self doubt holding them back

And to experience the life-changing transformations that teens are experiencing inside my program every day

That’s why…

Right here, right now…

You can schedule a breakthrough session with me…

We will hop on a skype call…

Where we talk about your teenager and if this program is suitable

Then if it’s a good fit… you can enroll your teen in the program

Usually my coaching price is $250…

But you won’t pay anything near $250

You won’t pay even half of that…

Because you’re still reading this page…

I know you’re serious about helping your teen develop confidence in themselves

That’s why today, I’m only charging $39.

And let me tell you…

What you will learn on this program is well worth the $39.

So if you’re ready to transform your teen… help them develop the confidence in themselves that virtually guarantees their success in life…

Go ahead and book a time that suits you…

And I’ll look forward to helping you achieve the breakthrough in your teen you’re looking for^[c][d]